Of course, Sarah knows that she isn’t a beauty in the regular sense. But she’s not worried about that, being a confident and successful woman.

"I try to dress appropriately for my age, and I’m a realist about what I look like. If those physical things were my insecurities, I’d be thrilled. What wonderful problems. My insecurities are more substantial than that. I worry first and foremost about my children and their health. My husband and his. I worry about what work opportunities will come up."