Not exclusively a woman thing, but my ex would screenshot our text conversations and send them to her family and friends for reaction. Like mundane conversations, not even anything interesting. It felt like a very creepy violation of my privacy. Also, she was an idiot. Hope you see this Laura.
Make no mistake, it's intended only to give them the upper hand while doing absolutely nothing to earn respect. Call 'em on it, and don't let them damage your self-respect. There are worthwhile girls out there, probably conservative, and they're the only ones worth giving yourself to.