Gayathri Mahesh
"It depends on the company, honestly. My friends don't mind either way. I have my eyebrows, mascara, kohl, eyeliner, and tinted lip balm on for this one. It's my day-to-day look, and nowadays I get compliments for it often. Sometimes, when I wear a dark lip or a full face of makeup, people stop to compliment me.
See, the thing is—I used to have insecurities. I still do have them. They didn't just vanish under a layer of makeup. But, back then, they used to bother me, and I used to be terribly self-conscious about them. And maybe because I was too self-conscious, others’ noticed them too, and they pointed out them to me. It hurts to hear your insecurities echoed back at you, and I tried hundreds of things to get others to stop doing that—from going full face every day to just staying at home.
Spoiler alert: nothing worked. Over the years, I've realized three things: I am too lazy to put on a full face every day. I hate isolation. You can't change anyone's opinion about you. In fact, it is much harder to change your own perception of self. So, I came back. I stopped caring. I stopped listening to the voice in my head that said I had to be liked by everyone. I also stopped hanging out with friends who prodded with my insecurities. I don't care much for people's reactions anymore.
Everything is met with a smile and a simple thanks. That's the trick to understanding another's opinions: They're always going to be there. But, you don't have to take them if you don't want to. I like using makeup to accentuate my features and it works for me. That's all there is to it. Think about what you will."
Don't be mad he runs when her sees your real face. You started by hiding it in the first place.