You throw all your ingredients together at once and mix them without thinking about their order. If you see butter (or any fat) and sugar listed first in a recipe, it’s a creaming method — which means you mix together the fat and sugar first, until it’s light and kind of airy. When you add the eggs, add them one by one to make sure they mix in well and so that your batter keeps its light texture.
I'm happy you got that passive/aggressive thought off your mind.. Cook on, big fella.
#6 Grocery store chills some vegetables but not others, I do what they do.
#9 Mix sauces similar to mixing paint; alternate top to bottom and outside edge inward.
#12 An accurate meat thermometer is a crucial tool. Learned my lesson after I overcooked a good piece of meat.