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Ansel 3 year s ago
I've often wished that their was some required financial means test before having children so that no child would ever be forced to suffer parents who cannot afford them.
       
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Claas 3 year s ago
Ansel, That's a really broad brush you're using to paint a family's financial situation. I know there's a percentage of people who do enter into having children with blind eyes; however, there are just as many -- if not more of late-- where a parent(s) can be faced with hardships. Anywhere from losing their job, being injured or becoming ill can place a family into quick financial decline with very little resources that are afforded to others who're already in the welfare system simply because it takes time to get those benefits to kick in. Also, many middle income family's don't enter into the welfare programs since they're so very difficult to climb out from, for a myriad of reasons and the parent(s) are hopeful new employment is just around the corner. So don't be so quick to judge when you clearly have no knowledge aside from your cynicism as to the variety of hardships there are that many people are facing.
       
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Sheldon 3 year s ago
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Ansel 42 min ago
I've often wished that their was some required financial means test before having children so that no child would ever be forced to suffer parents who cannot afford them.


Life happens buddy. Sometimes tragedy or accidents happen that effect the parents income. It's not always just trash raising kids.
       
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Tony 3 year s ago
good good good
       
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Lonzo 3 year s ago
girl_cray this makes me cry so much. I don't have much but still give things I don't use to people in need. No matter how low you fall, their are always people that have it worse. Never forget that!
       
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Greta 3 year s ago
Lonzo, So true #14 broke my heart she watched every penny for sales and coupons. You make do with what you can. Been there myself. You sound like a kind soul. I hope you have a great day

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"In high school, my boyfriend (who became my husband) and his family picked up pretty early on that I was poor, and that my family was pretty dysfunctional. They really let me into their family and took care of me in a sweet, not pity, way.

I was super into art, so his mom found a neighborhood art teacher that did like basically small group art classes and it was so so cool. Anyways she usually charged like $100 for all the supplies, time, etc. My mom knew how excited I was, and I never asked for anything so she told me to ask the teacher to wait until her next paycheck. The teacher was like “sure!” By the time I brought that check to her, I think my boyfriend’s mom talked to her, and she ripped it up and said I got a “scholarship” for the class. Honestly it gives me such good vibes thinking about it till this day."

 

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