"That work should be something you love It just has to be tolerable. If you make work your life, you will feel hit hard by the rough stages of work, which any job has. And you’ll feel bad for taking a sick day, or miss it when you should be enjoying time off"
LunarLeopard67
If you are already sucked in too far to your job then you will find it hard to notice, it's not more important that your life.
It's just a job.
you are not necessarily in the wrong job.
I have been raising three children who are not 'mine'. But I am theirs, always will be.