#11: I was in hospital because of some "effects" of a depession. A female friend came to vistis me an told me: get your @$$ up, only you can help yourself, don't be such a [email protected]#sy ... I never talked about my depression again, and I was successful in not showing my struggle ... and after some time I even felt better ...
Ebbie, That's actually sad! Being told your a [email protected]#sy, and then having to hide your depression is EXACTLY NOT what is needed. Your female friend is not your friend, she is a self entitle @$$hole. Go seek professional help and deal with the underlying issues or this will come back and eviscerate you later! I know, I suffered major depression for years till I got proper help. You don't need those kinds people in your life. Someone who asks "how can I help?", that's a friend!
#1 About one month after telling me "you are the best, that ever happend to me" my former girl friend broke up with me. This happend two times with two different girls ...
Men need more compliments. Far too often we are looked at to provide and protect with no reinforcement of doing a good job. We need to change this standard.
"“You’re really funny, I like you”. some really cute girl said this to me quite a while ago, had me nearly crying since I don’t get complimented at all, I don’t even compliment myself.
#11: I was in hospital because of some "effects" of a depession. A female friend came to vistis me an told me: get your @$$ up, only you can help yourself, don't be such a [email protected]#sy ... I never talked about my depression again, and I was successful in not showing my struggle ... and after some time I even felt better ...
Ebbie, That's actually sad! Being told your a [email protected]#sy, and then having to hide your depression is EXACTLY NOT what is needed. Your female friend is not your friend, she is a self entitle @$$hole. Go seek professional help and deal with the underlying issues or this will come back and eviscerate you later! I know, I suffered major depression for years till I got proper help. You don't need those kinds people in your life. Someone who asks "how can I help?", that's a friend!
#1 About one month after telling me "you are the best, that ever happend to me" my former girl friend broke up with me. This happend two times with two different girls ...
Men need more compliments. Far too often we are looked at to provide and protect with no reinforcement of doing a good job. We need to change this standard.
I never talked about my depression again, and I was successful in not showing my struggle ... and after some time I even felt better ...
Sorry to say I think it is too late.