I think that people who say: "It's not the abuse, the cheating, or whatever, but that he was mean to my pet." need to work on their self-esteem and remember they are as worthy of being treated kindly as their pets.
"Being told to get rid of my puppy for acting like a puppy and 'embarrassing him in front of the neighbors' for 'stealing' something he promptly took back to them was the last straw for me kicking out my ex. Not even the abuse or the cheating"
I think that people who say: "It's not the abuse, the cheating, or whatever, but that he was mean to my pet." need to work on their self-esteem and remember they are as worthy of being treated kindly as their pets.
to the 1st ones !