I think that people who say: "It's not the abuse, the cheating, or whatever, but that he was mean to my pet." need to work on their self-esteem and remember they are as worthy of being treated kindly as their pets.
"My ex used to chase his cat around the house. Poor kitty was so scared. I took him to divorce court over that cat. Now she's sleeping on my lap with her sister and she never has to run around the house unless it's happy zoomies."
I think that people who say: "It's not the abuse, the cheating, or whatever, but that he was mean to my pet." need to work on their self-esteem and remember they are as worthy of being treated kindly as their pets.
to the 1st ones !