"My grandmother had a neighbor who refused to help her repair the fence between their properties. It was still functional, but falling apart. Any conversation about fixing the fence ended with him saying that it was on her property so it was her fence and therefore she was fully responsible.
My grandmother took a fall and was hospitalized for a few weeks, only to return home and find a new fence built an extra 5 feet into her property and a bill in the mail from the neighbor. He argued with her for months that she owed him, that the original fence was on his property, and that where it was now was the boundary line.
My grandmother got a surveyor and, surprise! The original fence was correct, and the neighbor had taken 5 feet off her yard. At this point she was very old, frail, and tired of fighting her a-hole neighbor. Instead, she let nature take over. She planted blackberries along the back fence, and within two years it was covered. Every year, she’d walk the fence and throw seeds over because, of course, it was still her yard. After five years of fighting, the blackberries had reclaimed her property. She’s been gone for a few years now, but the blackberries remain, her way of haunting her neighbor. He’s tried ripping up the ones on his side of the fence on numerous occasions, but the plants reseed themselves and grow back every year from her side."
#12 - I wouldn’t expect my neighbor to help pay for my fence between our yards so he was initially right to tell grandma no.
Maybe, my grandfather told us how he and some friends put the outhouse on top of the guys house and then waited to scare him as he was coming home at night.
Said his father beat him thoroughly and that he would never do it again, but that one time was worth it.
I had the volume low, but just loud enough for my noisy apartment neighbor to hear.
We spoke when I got home........got everything straightened out between us.
On their best behavior afterwards.
Who needs to wear high heels and have the TV on full blast to vacuum a small apartment for hours?