“Her name is Yadia, she lives in Uganda, and I love her completely.”
“I serve on the board of a small organization that provides education for Ugandan children through sponsorship. Part of the sponsorship money goes to feeding the family of the sponsored child.”
If you dwell on that comment it has meaning deeper than just the words. For you, you haven't had to deal with PCOS, or infertility in general, so you can't begin to imagine how disheartening it can be. For her, the fact that she got pregnant was a miracle to her.
Sometimes people say and do stuff that is stupid and they should be called out for it. This isn't one of those times. Try to be a little more empathetic.
You can't read, obviously, and that explains a lot