"Responsibility.
Honestly i’d rather be a kid/young adult and having to deal with very little. Now i’m responsible for my family, work, income, bills, house, chores, insurances, parenting etc…. and it doesn’t get any less, seems like there’s just more being piled on."
Unless the two min wage jobs that you have to pay for food and rent doesn't leave much time for this 'put in the time' thing you speak of...
Pause for a moment and consider what entitlement means.
And for that comment, I'm guessing you still are.