"If they challenge everything you say...red flag. Being challenged a little bit is good, but when someone challenges every single thing you say, it's usually a precursor to controlling behavior."
"He talked about herpes for 30 minutes. He did not have herpes, but he discussed it for quite a long amount of time."
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Seb 7 month s ago
These are brutal reads. .
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Shirl 7 month s ago
Seb, one word of advise for them: be normal
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Virdie 7 month s ago
Shirl,
Normal is boring, how about be kind. Kind is amazing no matter how weird your ideas are.
Normal is boring, how about be kind. Kind is amazing no matter how weird your ideas are.
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Virdie 7 month s ago
There was a deaf guy that was a few years older than me, and really cute who would hang out in the coffee shop. We "talked" a bunch of times (he could lip read) but always generic topics. We never even touched and then one day he claimed to wanted to have a huge "army" of children and live in the woods, and he would marry any of the women in my family because he thought we could produce children for him. Then, when I rejected the idea and walked away, he followed me and screamed at me on the sidewalk about how I was a devil temptress breaking the Bible laws and how we had to follow God's plan. I turned and made it clear that I was not threatened by him, and never to talk to me or my family again. Luckily I was nearly his same height and had about 30lbs if muscle more than his skinny ass, because he stopped. He was arrested three months later for breaking a restraining order in Florida by sending threatening letters to an old girlfriend.
Normal is boring, how about be kind. Kind is amazing no matter how weird your ideas are.