"My aunt sent my sister and I gifts one year. She wasn’t in our lives all that much and fell behind on how old we were. At the time I 13 playing PlayStation and skateboarding and my sister was 17 going out sneaking smokes, parting and listening to Afroman. For our birthday she sent us gifts together and it was Pocahontas and Aladdin children’s books with the little buttons on the sides that you press when you get to a certain character or part in the book. We were giggling for days."
My parents and I run a small restaurant and last Christmas she asked us to host her Christmas family dinner we said sure dinner and drinks for 12 people doing all the prep decorating and clean up on one of our 2 holidays we have per year so she felt generous and we each got a 10€ tip.
Husband's remaining grandparents would send him a $100 check every Christmas. After a while he stopped cashing them, and the last check he is keeping because it still has his grandmother's name, and she passed away last year.