"Justifying having a wedding on a weeknight or in a remote (but cheaper to you) location as “If people love you, they’ll make the effort to come.”
Just because I don’t want to spend over $1k on flights and hotels to to attend a destination wedding don’t mean I don’t love the bride and groom. It means I’m prioritizing how I spend my money and limited vacation time."
The generic need for people to be special
which makes them all the same
Second marriage - Myself, the bride, two witnesses, and a magistrate... 34 years going strong!