“Use me as a pillow, or kindly touch me in a friendly, familiar way.  It’s not an invitation to sex.  It’s simply a nice gesture, letting me know they feel safe around me. “

“Personal one here but my partner and I are both neurodivergent and spend a lot of time “body-doubling” (basically just existing in each other’s company whilst doing separate things – i.e scrolling through Reddit). My partner has a lot of stims and hearing them making audible hums (signalling that they are happy/comfortable) fills my heart with joy every time.”