"Strange Things My Mother-In-Law Do"
"Someone posted a few days ago about passive-aggressive things in-laws do while at your house. So I thought I’d share the life-sized fireplace my Mother-in-law stuck to our wall where she thinks something is lacking. Excuse the brown wallpaper, it came with the house!"
Yes, but the assailants will describe it as 'accidental maliciousness' and 'deliberate carelessness.' To them, changing the meaning victimizes them, thus removing all culpability.
If that wasn't in Sun Tzu's 'Art of War'...it should have been.