"One that I picked up from a friend of mine whenever he was trying to pick out dinner with his gf: rather than ask “What do you want?” and getting the typical ‘i dunno, anything’ answer and then having suggestions shot down. Start with “what do you NOT want?”
Used it a few times in some of my relationships and it’s the godsend question."
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Virdie 6 month s ago
Yay, let's teach people how to manipulate and control others, since simply asking and accepting their answers isn't enough. Because it's not about what they want it's about what you want, and how much you can get before you get into trouble.
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Dorinda 6 month s ago
Virdie,
If THAT'S what you took from that, your inner criminal is showing.
If THAT'S what you took from that, your inner criminal is showing.
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Van 6 month s ago
Well Mattie,
Aren't you just an angry South Pole Elf??
Mattie spends her/his evenings yelling profanities at the blank wall.
Aren't you just an angry South Pole Elf??
Mattie spends her/his evenings yelling profanities at the blank wall.
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Gregory 6 month s ago
#13 Nah, don't do this. People start navigating every aspect of theirs lives that way, and its getting really cold everywhere.
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Noel 6 month s ago
#3 I know this and this made talking to HR always a very long process as they use the same trick
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Roland 6 month s ago
#7 - don't try that on us old guys. We know the tricks. I'll switch things up on you just to be a pain in your neck.
If THAT'S what you took from that, your inner criminal is showing.
Aren't you just an angry South Pole Elf??
Mattie spends her/his evenings yelling profanities at the blank wall.