#31 Toddler is the age when they learn to walk and barely run without falling over (toddling) That's not a toddler. That's one of those people who say "my baby is 63 months".

#34 If your job was to make your eldest feel they need to be a parent because you failed... then yes you gave up your "job".

Or, you could not have kids.

So, childless cat lady is looking kinda good right now, huh?