Everyone is just out to get theirs.ChevalierMal_Fet:So, last year I got divorced. I was really hurt by the end of the marriage, which involved infidelity from her everything was just shitty.I was single for a while, and went on a few first dates that went nowhere, and I felt like I was going to be alone forever.Then, through Facebook dating of all things, I got a like from a nice woman who had an interest similar to mine. We got to talking, and things just progressed from there.It’s a long distance thing, but we are able to make trips to see each other every couple of weeks, so it’s not too bad.But, the wonderful thing is just how nice it is to be excited about a person who is excited about me- she remembers those small details about what I like and dislike, and she compliments and says nice things to me, and when we’re together I feel like I’m the luckiest person alive.And, the most wonderful thing is that I’m completely and totally free to just love her wholeheartedly. I can send all the cheesy and sweet texts, and random pictures, and whatever else. When we visit each other, we can cuddle and hug and hold hands and do things with each other. We’re able to just be happy.There are others out there! It was hard holding on to that part of myself that wasn’t a cynical jackass, but I was determined to not let the modern dating situation change the parts of myself that I liked, the parts of myself that were able to just love somebody.Even if you get hurt by somebody, you just have to keep on loving.