If they never ask questions about you and only talk about themselves.If it feels more like an exit interview than a conversation,If they seem superficial -- guess what. They are.If they laugh at everything you say and keep saying "You're funny....".ADHD-Fens:It is definitely possible to have a back and forth without questions, though. You say something about yourself, I relate something from my experiences to yours, you bring up an opinion you have about the topic, I express surprise that someone else was thinking the same thing as me.Questions are part of a good conversation, obviously, but I have had conversations where someone asks me a question, I share an interesting answer, and then they just ask another question - sometimes changing the topic altogether. It's kind of exhausting, and it makes it seem like they don't actually care about the things they're asking.Another thing is that some people don't like the interview style of getting to know someone. I prefer to learn about people through shared experiences, at least initially. It's a much more natural way to get to the core of who someone is - and more effective, too, in my experience. Obviously questions are needed for very basic stuff (do you want to go... do you like... etc.) but that's like 10% of it for me.