#1 "Dont call it a compound, it makes it sound like a cult" along with "I need to borrow more money, because I have to raise funds to go on ministry work" followed a few years later by "I have to go to therapy and had to leave the ministry, they wouldn't belive me when I said I was abused".

#14 I dunno... monogamy has worked for me for over 25 years... lack if monogamy doesnt seem to work well for others though.