Whatever THIS is you need to sort it out and quick, don’t let time pass you by to get some clarification, it will only get worse and more awkward the longer you leave it. Just be confident when bringing it up, for example, “since we have been speaking a lot more lately, to be honest, I didn’t know if this was just a coffee or an actual date…” Be assertive, say it with a smile and be ready for the answer to go either way. Whatever the response, at least you can enjoy your coffee with some company.

You’re Late

In the immortal words of Conor McGregor, “sorry I’m late, I just don’t give a f*ck”, well, unfortunately, that just won’t cut it here. Not just because I am assuming you’re not a multimillionaire mixed martial arts fighter but because your date it waiting and being late is a cardinal sin. You must aim to get ready early and leave for your date early; this will also help with your nerves. I know unforeseen circumstances can get in the way, we have all used that excuse, but there is something you can do. Be honest and keep in touch, text her let her know your running late and that you will be there in 5 or 10 minutes, but make sure you are. Any later and you will be asking for a table and coffee for one, and nobody wants that!