Hudson recommends a little test for his clients when trying to determine if the lady they’re out with is “feeling the same temperature you are.” It’s simple: Ask an open ended question, such as, “If you could travel anywhere in the world tomorrow, where would it be and why?” He says to ask this about 10 minutes into the conversation. The depth of her answer, how much thought she truly puts into it, is a great gauge of how into you she is.