This "depressed and nearly dropping out of school" pre-divorce look to this "doctorate graduate" post-divorce look:
"This is pic on the left is before I separated from my ex of 11 years. I was unhappy, lonely in my marriage, seriously depressed, and almost quit school. The pic on the right is me completing my doctorate four years later. I'm doing what I love and am truly content and filled with joy. Best decision ever to get divorced!"
pre-marriage - healthy, happy, trying to look good
married - gaining fat, becoming unhappy, blaming husband for all the troubles
post-divorce - started working out, eat healthy, getting happy
rinse-repeat
is the marriage really the problem? or is just the attitude change after wedding...