And this admirable transformation:
"Being lied to, cheated on, and manipulated for 14 years can certainly change a person. I was very insecure, had very low self esteem, and the thought of leaving him left me feeling trapped and afraid. But I finally gathered the strength and now I'm more confident, more free, and, most of all, happy."
pre-marriage - healthy, happy, trying to look good
married - gaining fat, becoming unhappy, blaming husband for all the troubles
post-divorce - started working out, eat healthy, getting happy
rinse-repeat
is the marriage really the problem? or is just the attitude change after wedding...