This "I can crush a bathroom selfie" look:
"I did tons of things to my hair that I didn’t want to, hoping he would call me beautiful. Surprise! It didn’t work. With the long hair I thought I couldn’t love, and 30 pounds lighter, I feel more confident in the random bathroom selfie than in the professional photo with full make up. It’s hard to love yourself when you are surrounded by hate, or worse, apathy."
pre-marriage - healthy, happy, trying to look good
married - gaining fat, becoming unhappy, blaming husband for all the troubles
post-divorce - started working out, eat healthy, getting happy
rinse-repeat
is the marriage really the problem? or is just the attitude change after wedding...