And this "overcoming all obstacles" look:
"For 16 years, I put up with an abusive alcoholic. The physical abuse ended after he sobered up, but his emotional torment, gaslighting, lies, and manipulation were endless even as a dry drunk. Took me years to finally have the courage to say enough for the children and I. It’s been six months post divorce and I love my glow! Not living in a constant environment of eggshells, fights, and toxicity can do wonders for your body and soul!"
pre-marriage - healthy, happy, trying to look good
married - gaining fat, becoming unhappy, blaming husband for all the troubles
post-divorce - started working out, eat healthy, getting happy
rinse-repeat
is the marriage really the problem? or is just the attitude change after wedding...