I have a friend that whenever she starts dating a guy, just lists me off thing about the dude like she’s listing a resume. Never anything about the personality or sense of humor or what characteristics about them she enjoys.
It’s job, career, college, earnings, house. I had to tell her it was getting creepy because it just sounds like she’s getting a checklist to impress people, not find a good person for her.
Make no mistake, it's intended only to give them the upper hand while doing absolutely nothing to earn respect. Call 'em on it, and don't let them damage your self-respect. There are worthwhile girls out there, probably conservative, and they're the only ones worth giving yourself to.