“That I was the a$$hole in my relationships. Turns out I’ve become the person I was afraid of becoming my entire life, my dad. A jealous dude with anger management issues who never sees his own faults.
To be fair though, I’ve come a long way since my best friend straight up told me what I’ve become and that if I stayed that way she was going to stop being friends with me.
I guess I don’t regret finding out because it helped me get my s@#t together. However, the fact that you were the a$$hole and you were the reason some of your friends cut ties with you is a pretty hard pill to swallow. Especially knowing that you’ll never get to make it up to some of them because it’s been years, why should they care at this point.”
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HUGE 4 year s ago
#18 Unless this is some very small, very private club, there is no such thing as a high rank in a bdsm club. It's more likely that the sister is on a board of a club which maintains a rented play space, which means she does what most board members do in a bdsm club - they run the office. However, in many of those clubs it also means is that she's one of those people who absolutely positively has to be in charge. Of everybody. All the time. And I'm going to leave that right there.
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ChrisR 4 year s ago
#15 Simply reach out and appoligize for being the a$$hole. It they want to get more in touch they will. If not, at least you got to show them (and yourself) that you have changed.
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Catshark 4 year s ago
My father told me i was the result of a bad condom. Yay...
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Jelyyfish 4 year s ago
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/e7d1e0/what_do_you_regret_finding_ou
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One 4 year s ago
I just found out I'm a psychopath because I thought every one of these was funny.
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Hub 2 year s ago
Parents told me I was the first one to survive. 
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