#18 Unless this is some very small, very private club, there is no such thing as a high rank in a bdsm club. It's more likely that the sister is on a board of a club which maintains a rented play space, which means she does what most board members do in a bdsm club - they run the office. However, in many of those clubs it also means is that she's one of those people who absolutely positively has to be in charge. Of everybody. All the time. And I'm going to leave that right there.
#15 Simply reach out and appoligize for being the a$$hole. It they want to get more in touch they will. If not, at least you got to show them (and yourself) that you have changed.
“My father never wanted me (or children at all) and actually told my mother that if she had me, he’d spend his life making both of us miserable. She was convinced that once he saw me, he’d change his mind. She was very, very wrong.”
#18 Unless this is some very small, very private club, there is no such thing as a high rank in a bdsm club. It's more likely that the sister is on a board of a club which maintains a rented play space, which means she does what most board members do in a bdsm club - they run the office. However, in many of those clubs it also means is that she's one of those people who absolutely positively has to be in charge. Of everybody. All the time. And I'm going to leave that right there.
#15 Simply reach out and appoligize for being the a$$hole. It they want to get more in touch they will. If not, at least you got to show them (and yourself) that you have changed.
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