His brother was rude to me at the table, and I said “I’m not sure I agree with that, let’s leave it there” to which his brother stormed off. I was then banished from the house until I apologised to the father, and all the brothers for “disrespecting” a man in the house. My boyfriend told me I had to do this.

Didn’t want to, so he ambushed me on Valentine’s Day (4 months later) for a ‘special night in’ and locked me in a room with his brother until I apologised. I apologised and got the f@#k out of that room and relationship