“My now-fiance told me he liked me, and I told him I wanted to get to know him. At the end of our first date we kissed and arranged a second date. I told him later that night that I liked him back. After a few days he messaged me ‘but do you mean like as a friend or do we like each other the same way? I’m sorry but you have to spell it out for me. I don’t want to get the wrong impression'”.