“In middle school jazz band, the teacher asked me to play a solo during one of our performances. After the performance, the teacher congratulated us and told the soloists what a great job they did… except me. For me I was told how horrible I sounded in front of the group. Never performed a solo again haha.”
The same teacher two years later in sport, we were asked to dive 25 Meters. Those who didn'T made it had to try it the whole year at the beginnig of each course. After one month I was the only one who had to do this. For three more month every swimming class started by: every one was sitting down and I hat to try to dive 25 meters (I was good at long distant running, average basketball player, but was an awful swimmer and not suprisingly I still hate swimming)
Welcome to life, it won't get better.
Read: "Bullyocracy": How the Social Hierarchy Enables Bullies to Rule Schools, Work Places, and Society at Large by Donald Jeffries. A real eye opener!