Carl,

If one see the game and does not simply leave the girl, then he enjoy to be play. Everybody play a game, no one force anyone into it, if he think she is just here for the money, no need for such a public shaming, just stop buying and leave her! That's being a normal acting person.

Ez,
You won't be labeled as a racist for saying the man is an A**hole, which he obviously is.
But your need to add the rest of your sentence after saying so, trying to justify you are not, mean you might have racist issues yes.

Carl, A woman amongst women , good for her for refusing his proposal. Maybe he’s like that a lot and Maybe worst in private. It probably saved her. I can just imagine what this looser would be like down the line. He needs to be in an anger management program.