"If you ever have to break up with a woman (and I believe it also applies to women breaking up with men.. or anyone breaking up with anyone else).

Make sure to be completely honest about what you feel… don’t try to make it over-soft or easy (of course be kind, but honest)… there will be tears (don’t let them change your mind if you already made a choice), there will be maybe yelling, resentment or whatever, you will feel maybe guilty (and that is normal)… but at the end of the day she/he is strong enough to deal with the truth.. and if she/he is not strong enough then lying or making it soft will be a hell worst (believe me, I have seen it, I have done it.. it’s a hell)."

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