“My husband once woke me up saying, ‘Call the police. Call the police! CALL. THE. POLICE!’ I chuckled when I realized he was sleep talking. And the next morning, he told me he’d been dreaming that one of his students was upset about her grade, and was revving up a car at the end of our driveway, preparing to run him over! He’s a professor.”
she has figured out that if she just agrees to whatever I am saying, I go back to sleep.
if she disagrees, I create a whole angry argument around it until she agrees