"I once woke up to my ex (then boyfriend) humping my leg.
Same ex spent the whole week after the breakup sending me poems, begging me to take him back, stating he doesn’t care that I don’t love him anymore, that I couldn’t do this to him after all our time together (been with him for less than four months).
Blocked him. His mom wrote to me to ask me why I dumped her son.
Jesus christ."
Youre_late_for_tea
That is something I will never understand.
There is this thing called infatuation - it is like a drug that makes people almost unable to find minor faults with each other until it is over, it can last for between 1 and 3 years. All the redflags are obvious in hindsight or from neutral observers perspective, also if someone was burned previously they will learn to spot the early signs out of necessity.