"My ex left notes for me to find in my books. S@#t like “I will miss you” and “I will always love you”
It’s been 9 years and I am still. Finding. This. S@#t.
He was really abusive so it just makes me angry. Also it still feels like a violation, knowing he was taking that kind of time to go through my stuff like that. Creepy af."
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Obediah 3 year s ago
How do people get romantically involved with these sort of psychos in the first place? It really puzzles me. I mean, there MUST have been a lot of red flags in this league of crazy.
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Medora 3 year s ago
Obediah,
That is something I will never understand.
That is something I will never understand.
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Chan 3 year s ago
Obediah,
There is this thing called infatuation - it is like a drug that makes people almost unable to find minor faults with each other until it is over, it can last for between 1 and 3 years. All the redflags are obvious in hindsight or from neutral observers perspective, also if someone was burned previously they will learn to spot the early signs out of necessity.
There is this thing called infatuation - it is like a drug that makes people almost unable to find minor faults with each other until it is over, it can last for between 1 and 3 years. All the redflags are obvious in hindsight or from neutral observers perspective, also if someone was burned previously they will learn to spot the early signs out of necessity.
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Sig 3 year s ago
Some people don't show their true selves early in the relationship. It takes a long time to know someone really well.
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Ora 3 month s ago
People are good actors in the beginning.
That is something I will never understand.
There is this thing called infatuation - it is like a drug that makes people almost unable to find minor faults with each other until it is over, it can last for between 1 and 3 years. All the redflags are obvious in hindsight or from neutral observers perspective, also if someone was burned previously they will learn to spot the early signs out of necessity.