"Claimed I tried to murder him with an axe, jumped out the bathroom window, and ran home to mommy. In truth, we argued. We did have axes on the property – it was a farm, we had all kinds of s@#t – but that didn’t hold, because it was a lie, and the patrol officers saw through it. Still had to go to court, because domestic violence, but that was dismissed.
Still, can claim to having been held as an axe murderer."
Three_Day_Rider
That is something I will never understand.
There is this thing called infatuation - it is like a drug that makes people almost unable to find minor faults with each other until it is over, it can last for between 1 and 3 years. All the redflags are obvious in hindsight or from neutral observers perspective, also if someone was burned previously they will learn to spot the early signs out of necessity.