“If you can’t have a civilized argument with them. If small differences at the start of the relationship already turn into screaming, shouting, insulting etc. just think about how those important discussions later in the relationship will go…”
-PhobosDeimosX
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Judson 3 year s ago
LOL, I met this very good looking woman and asked her out. On the first date she belligerently asked me "have you even been paying attention to what I've been saying?" (I was probably a little nervous and thus distracted) but I thought - nope, I'm out - don't care how fine she is. There's a song by Big Sean called IDGAF About You - that song wasn't out then but if it had been it would have been very fitting LOL. https://youtu.be/cZaJYDPY-YQ
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Clarinda 3 year s ago
Judson,
so you're a selfish self-absorbed man-child and the girl dodged a bullet, hopefully her next date will be with a real man who knows how to treat a lady. i wish her the best.
so you're a selfish self-absorbed man-child and the girl dodged a bullet, hopefully her next date will be with a real man who knows how to treat a lady. i wish her the best.
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Prue 3 year s ago
Judson,
Well, if this "Cool story" is even true, bro, then there's probably a reason she asked if you even paid attention... You were distracted,... that would mean you were not, thinking about her and listening to what she said, right? Which means she would be right...
I mean if you are distracted you have your attention on something else...
And your link to a song called "I don't f**k with you" speaks volumes in and of itself. You apparently thought this date, and all dates, are solely to have sex. It even is obvious you meant that link as if saying she wanted you, but you wasn't interested in her anyway.
You try to paint yourself as this persona that can just leave women behind because you can easily get someone else, but at the same time you're just a nervous "nice guy".
Plus, you using "Lol" at the beginning and end in caps practically screams your the kind of guy that laughs hardest at his own jokes and expects everyone else to do the same.
TL;DR, If this woman even existed, you did her a huge favour by going home alone playing a Big Sean song thinking you are the baddest mofo on da streetz.
Well, if this "Cool story" is even true, bro, then there's probably a reason she asked if you even paid attention... You were distracted,... that would mean you were not, thinking about her and listening to what she said, right? Which means she would be right...
I mean if you are distracted you have your attention on something else...
And your link to a song called "I don't f**k with you" speaks volumes in and of itself. You apparently thought this date, and all dates, are solely to have sex. It even is obvious you meant that link as if saying she wanted you, but you wasn't interested in her anyway.
You try to paint yourself as this persona that can just leave women behind because you can easily get someone else, but at the same time you're just a nervous "nice guy".
Plus, you using "Lol" at the beginning and end in caps practically screams your the kind of guy that laughs hardest at his own jokes and expects everyone else to do the same.
TL;DR, If this woman even existed, you did her a huge favour by going home alone playing a Big Sean song thinking you are the baddest mofo on da streetz.
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Judy 3 year s ago
Judson, forgot all about that song… FWIW it doesn’t sound like a made up story as Prue implied. If someone disrespects you by being belligerent on your first “date” then it’s only going to go downhill from there. Don’t grovel, just move on.
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Tabitha 3 year s ago
When she is missing Soviet Union even though she was not born in the era.
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Madelyn 3 year s ago
Tabitha,
Now THAT one is specific. You have my attention. :)
Now THAT one is specific. You have my attention. :)
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Lavina 3 year s ago
Madelyn,
I too have questions. Way to specific to not be a good story.
For me they have to be self aware, honest, and able to disagree using rational thought.......Yea I'm divorced and not interested in that nonsense again.
I too have questions. Way to specific to not be a good story.
For me they have to be self aware, honest, and able to disagree using rational thought.......Yea I'm divorced and not interested in that nonsense again.
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Democrates 3 year s ago
When they have pink, turquoise, blue hair etc and think of themselves as social justice warriors whose mission is to fight the patriarchy is a huge red flag.
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Prue 3 year s ago
Democrates,
Luckily your huge red flag is easily visible. All you have to do is open your mouth and start whining about hair colour as if it means anything and you beginning to rage about how you hate it when people actively contradict your misogamistic nonsense and helping other people against people like you.
Luckily your huge red flag is easily visible. All you have to do is open your mouth and start whining about hair colour as if it means anything and you beginning to rage about how you hate it when people actively contradict your misogamistic nonsense and helping other people against people like you.
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Susannah 3 year s ago
Prue,....you sound like a goof ball.
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Gus 3 year s ago
Prue,
you are a red flag.
you are a red flag.
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Prue 3 year s ago
Gus,
Any logical reason why? You know..like I just gave?
Any logical reason why? You know..like I just gave?
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Clarinda 3 year s ago
Democrates,
wow this is turning out to be like guess who the vegan is but instead of vegan its guess who the red flag psycho is. so far prue is in the lead.
wow this is turning out to be like guess who the vegan is but instead of vegan its guess who the red flag psycho is. so far prue is in the lead.
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Rolly 3 year s ago
"Ladies", just simps still fall for your BS. Good luck with them!
so you're a selfish self-absorbed man-child and the girl dodged a bullet, hopefully her next date will be with a real man who knows how to treat a lady. i wish her the best.
Well, if this "Cool story" is even true, bro, then there's probably a reason she asked if you even paid attention... You were distracted,... that would mean you were not, thinking about her and listening to what she said, right? Which means she would be right...
I mean if you are distracted you have your attention on something else...
And your link to a song called "I don't f**k with you" speaks volumes in and of itself. You apparently thought this date, and all dates, are solely to have sex. It even is obvious you meant that link as if saying she wanted you, but you wasn't interested in her anyway.
You try to paint yourself as this persona that can just leave women behind because you can easily get someone else, but at the same time you're just a nervous "nice guy".
Plus, you using "Lol" at the beginning and end in caps practically screams your the kind of guy that laughs hardest at his own jokes and expects everyone else to do the same.
TL;DR, If this woman even existed, you did her a huge favour by going home alone playing a Big Sean song thinking you are the baddest mofo on da streetz.
Now THAT one is specific. You have my attention. :)
I too have questions. Way to specific to not be a good story.
For me they have to be self aware, honest, and able to disagree using rational thought.......Yea I'm divorced and not interested in that nonsense again.
Luckily your huge red flag is easily visible. All you have to do is open your mouth and start whining about hair colour as if it means anything and you beginning to rage about how you hate it when people actively contradict your misogamistic nonsense and helping other people against people like you.
you are a red flag.
Any logical reason why? You know..like I just gave?
wow this is turning out to be like guess who the vegan is but instead of vegan its guess who the red flag psycho is. so far prue is in the lead.