“If you can’t have a civilized argument with them. If small differences at the start of the relationship already turn into screaming, shouting, insulting etc. just think about how those important discussions later in the relationship will go…”
“Seeing how they speak to other people, especially when they aren’t around, if they s@#t talk their friends when they aren’t around why would you think they wouldn’t do that to you as well.”
“Not being able to apologize. Everybody makes mistakes, doesn’t matter. Own up to it and I respect you even more. Seek excuses? Bye!”
“Complaining about everything.”
“I broke off with a girl on our 3rd date because she was mad I wasn’t jealous. So I guess jealousy?”
"Any form of, “if you can’t handle me when I’m a sleeze bag, piece of s@#t, then you don’t deserve me when I’m a lesser sleeze, piece of s@#t”"
“They spend 90% of their free time sat on their phone but get annoyed when you play a few hours of PlayStation to relax.”
“If they’re full of themselves , can’t have someone who can’t joke and make fun of themselves and bases life on how many likes they get on social media.”
“Lying, saying stuff about you behind your back, being mean to people for no reason, being fake.”
“Doesn’t let you have time to yourself/ their entire life revolves around you to the point that they suffocate you.”
“Alking about exes too much to the line of comparing you two. Big no no for me.”
“Huge red flag when they ask you for every little detail when you’ve been somewhere without them i.e out with friends or something, and basically accusing you of cheating then getting overly defensive and secretive (showing really strong cheater signs) themselves.”
“No “test” behaviour. Be straightforward or I’ll assume you’re likely to instigate dumbs@#t drama. Honesty for honesty.”
“Toxic behavior overall. Trying to pressure me into something I don’t want to do. And I hold honesty to a pretty high regard so any form of manipulation or toxic passive aggressiveness is over the line for me.”
“If they are terrible with finances.”
“The whole mindset of “I’m the god’s gift to Earth, I don’t have to bring anything to the table, everyone wants me, I got options so I’m just going to treat you like an option and you better be happy about it or I’m going to label you insecure and tell all your friends and family.”
so you're a selfish self-absorbed man-child and the girl dodged a bullet, hopefully her next date will be with a real man who knows how to treat a lady. i wish her the best.
Well, if this "Cool story" is even true, bro, then there's probably a reason she asked if you even paid attention... You were distracted,... that would mean you were not, thinking about her and listening to what she said, right? Which means she would be right...
I mean if you are distracted you have your attention on something else...
And your link to a song called "I don't f**k with you" speaks volumes in and of itself. You apparently thought this date, and all dates, are solely to have sex. It even is obvious you meant that link as if saying she wanted you, but you wasn't interested in her anyway.
You try to paint yourself as this persona that can just leave women behind because you can easily get someone else, but at the same time you're just a nervous "nice guy".
Plus, you using "Lol" at the beginning and end in caps practically screams your the kind of guy that laughs hardest at his own jokes and expects everyone else to do the same.
TL;DR, If this woman even existed, you did her a huge favour by going home alone playing a Big Sean song thinking you are the baddest mofo on da streetz.
Now THAT one is specific. You have my attention. :)
I too have questions. Way to specific to not be a good story.
For me they have to be self aware, honest, and able to disagree using rational thought.......Yea I'm divorced and not interested in that nonsense again.
Luckily your huge red flag is easily visible. All you have to do is open your mouth and start whining about hair colour as if it means anything and you beginning to rage about how you hate it when people actively contradict your misogamistic nonsense and helping other people against people like you.
you are a red flag.
Any logical reason why? You know..like I just gave?
wow this is turning out to be like guess who the vegan is but instead of vegan its guess who the red flag psycho is. so far prue is in the lead.