"People know each other.
My in-laws’ family hails from a tiny Idaho town. First time I was there with my then-gf, a random old-timer “downtown” introduced himself and said “you must be Peggy’s granddaughter’s boyfriend”.
He was right, so I asked him how he knew.
“Well, she said you’d be coming, and you don’t look related to anyone here, so… you must be him”."
Meaning what? Only hillbillies give a damn about community?
Couldn’t be more accurate
It is okay to take a mans wife, but not his property or dog.
If you do not know what you are doing, do not worry somebody else does know what you are doing.
Did you arrive here with the correct wife? Do not worry you will leave here with the correct wife.
Disputes are settled at the river, what happens at the river stay at the river.