“The pressure of being expected by society to be the initiator and pursuer in any romantic situation. If you’re not good at this, and struggle to learn how, you are likely to starve (metaphorically speaking), and live a life of solitude.
By contrast, women are more likely to be hit on or approached even if they are shy. Which has it’s own problems, obviously! But women will never understand this specific feeling of pressure.”
Also, we know women demand that they be the most important thing in our lives, but we don't require the same from you. If you're there, it's (usually) enough.
You need to stop talking.
Sounds like someone doesn't have a girlfriend.
That's disturbing and oddly specific...