"In college, I went on a date with a really nice guy but vibes were off for me the whole time. Still, I was a people pleaser, so I let him kiss me at the end of the date. The final straw was when he stopped mid-kiss and asked, “Boobies? Boobies?” While I appreciated the check for consent, I had the ick so bad, I squeaked out a, “no thank you,” and ran inside."