"Decent enough guy, but waited until *after* I ordered dinner to explain he was a vegetarian and he wouldn’t pay for my “murder steak” but would cover dessert. Flabbergasted, I explained that I always pay for myself and I would never expect that from anyone. Also, if he’d mentioned it ahead of time, I would have ordered something else to be polite. Later on, we went to the bar and he explained that he was in AA and had been kicked out of every bar in town for bad behavior. Dammit Beavis, tell me ahead of time! There was no second date."