"A man knocked on my door and introduced himself as the husband of a woman that my husband worked with. He was there to tell me that his wife was having an affair with my husband.
My husband never came home after that. He got an Airbnb and told me to get a lawyer. We had been together for 24 years."
Not when kids are involved, they are in your life regardless if you want them to be.
#13 was how I knew