"My daughter told me."
"He gave me his phone to hold while he was having a minor medical procedure and while in the waiting room, a text came through.
It said something like, “Ha, so we can do the deed again?” and I was totally confused, so I scrolled up through the text thread and read, “I’m sorry if you feel guilty” and “No, I’d only feel guilty if I still loved her.”
And that was the end of that relationship."
"I was pregnant, and they were doing the standard tests including STDs and I tested positive for chlamydia.
I was sooo embarrassed, but glad to have found out because it turns out that can really mess up a pregnancy.
Still took me another year to file for divorce though."
"A flirty text from a guy popped up while we were looking at her phone for a place to eat.
He complimented a picture I had just taken of her … she sent it to him while around me. Bold.
Also this happened at the Eiffel Tower, only a couple of hours into what was supposed to be 2-week vacation."
"The other girl was wearing my clothes in front of me."
"My neighbor told me that there was an odd car parked in my driveway when the ex was supposed to be at work."
"My friends found out before me and knew they (the cheaters) were going to the movies together.
My friends begged me to go see a movie with them so that I could catch them in the act because they knew I wouldn’t believe them if they just told me.
True friends."
"I didn’t know at the time we broke up, for sure, but she was engaged a week after we broke up.
I can’t even figure out how that worked, exactly."
"Phone bill. She was texting some random number 600 times a month.
I thought I recognized the number, and when I put it in my phone it was a buddy of mine."
"A man knocked on my door and introduced himself as the husband of a woman that my husband worked with. He was there to tell me that his wife was having an affair with my husband.
My husband never came home after that. He got an Airbnb and told me to get a lawyer. We had been together for 24 years."
"When I saw her reflected in his sunglasses in a picture that he texted me."
"She stopped giving me hugs. Sometimes you just know."
"He pocket dialed me while bragging about it to a co-worker. The universe really had my back on that one."
"Was using her phone for GPS while we were on a road trip because mine had issues when she got a text from the guy we had been in marriage counseling about who she says she hasn’t talked to for months, about seeing her tomorrow.
Twenty-four years of being together, 23 years married, two kids, a house.
All down the f@#king drain and ruined my life for a guy who could pass for a real life Ned Flanders."
"The girl messaged me from an anonymous IG account letting me know it happened while I was out of town.
Maybe I wouldn’t have believed it if she didn’t provide specific details, like the type of car I drove that I had let the car-less cheater drive while I was gone."
"The idiot saved her number as “My little h#e <3.”"
"This was a long time ago – before social media. I went to check my email on his computer and his instant messenger popped up.
His “ex girlfriend” couldn’t wait to finally see him next week, that long distance has been awful and can’t wait to reconnect. He told me they broke up. They did not. He did not tell her about me or that we were living together.
I was suddenly homeless. She did fly in the next week and gave the ring back – I did not know they were engaged, thought they had broken up.
Yay. Good times."
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Not when kids are involved, they are in your life regardless if you want them to be.
#13 was how I knew