"He gave me his phone to hold while he was having a minor medical procedure and while in the waiting room, a text came through.
It said something like, “Ha, so we can do the deed again?” and I was totally confused, so I scrolled up through the text thread and read, “I’m sorry if you feel guilty” and “No, I’d only feel guilty if I still loved her.”
And that was the end of that relationship."
Not when kids are involved, they are in your life regardless if you want them to be.
#13 was how I knew