"Accountability. If she can openly admit when she’s wrong or that she f@#ked up that’s attractive as it shows maturity and ability to judge yourself impartially and it means you are less likely to repeat the mistake. This also means what you feel for her is not only love, it’s respect, which is just as important"
non-drinker... let's not get carried away!
Someone once asked me if my wife drank. I said that she’s Irish. They said never mind.